Grief & Suffering

You Have (Unmet) Childhood Needs | LITTLE BY LITTLE | Fr Columba Jordan CFR

by Fr Columba Jordan CFR

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Why do we chase love that hurts us? Why is it so hard to receive real love?

Many of us carry unmet childhood needs into adulthood, leaving us stuck in unhealthy patterns. In this episode, Fr Columba helps us recognise our emotional wounds, stop self-sabotaging relationships, and open ourselves to authentic love—from God, from others and for ourselves.

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