Wanting to Fix People

by Fr. Mike Schmitz

We have a tendency to want to fix the people we love. While delighting in all their good traits, we think, “If only they didn’t have this one quirk...” In this video, Fr. Mike Schmitz explains that love embraces the entire person just the way he or she is. He then gives some practical advice on how to do that.

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