How to Correct Someone Without Hurting Them

by Fr. Mike Schmitz

Photo by Thuyen Ngo on Unsplash

What's the difference between criticism and correction, and does it really matter?

Fr. Mike Schmitz explains how to offer correction in a way that is both loving and effective. Instead of assuming motives, resorting to name-calling, or making personal attacks, he encourages us to focus on the facts. And when we're unsure of someone's intentions, choose trust over suspicion.

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